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oh, my childhood.

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oh, my childhood.

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"And feminism also dares to expect more from men. Feminism expects a man to be ethical, emotionally present, and accountable to his values in his actions with women- as well as with other men. Feminism loves men enough to expect them to act honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so. Feminism is a vision that expects men to go from being “just guys,” accepting whatever they might happen to do, to being just guys- capable of autonomy and authenticity, inspired by justice. That is, feminism believes that guys can become men."
— Michael Kimmel, author of Guyland (via shinycrunchy) (via cocknbull) (via bmckinney) (via amberlrhea)
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isabelthespy:

nudawn:

writera:

Currently.

Ollie: We’re all at a bit of a loss as to— Sookie: Whenever I’m at a loss, I dip into Rilke. Igby: Rilke? That tortures me. Igby: Every Christmas, some asshole gives me this copy of Young Poet with this patronizing note on the flap about how it’s supposed to change my life.Ollie: Maybe you should read it before judging it. Igby: I’m pretty confident.  After all, one of the copies was from you.

i hadn’t thought about this movie in years but i remember really enjoying it.
I love this movie. Love love love.

isabelthespy:

nudawn:

writera:

Currently.

Ollie: We’re all at a bit of a loss as to—
Sookie: Whenever I’m at a loss, I dip into Rilke.
Igby: Rilke? That tortures me.
Igby: Every Christmas, some asshole gives me this copy of Young Poet with this patronizing note on the flap about how it’s supposed to change my life.
Ollie: Maybe you should read it before judging it.
Igby: I’m pretty confident. After all, one of the copies was from you.

i hadn’t thought about this movie in years but i remember really enjoying it.

I love this movie. Love love love.

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truth. it can leave you hurting and sore the next day from dancing, but still smiling.

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truth. it can leave you hurting and sore the next day from dancing, but still smiling.

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skullsandlace:

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or like me, you will spend your life trying to flee these things. ;)

skullsandlace:

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or like me, you will spend your life trying to flee these things. ;)

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brief addendum on the idea of "never compromising"

isabelthespy:

another thing i think a lot of people, fans and critics, get wrong about Watchmen is that we are supposed to read Rorschach as the hero of the story because he never compromises. this is why fans say they love him, in the end, because no matter what! even though it meant his own death! he never compromised! and this is also sometimes why i have seen people criticizing the book say, well of course we are supposed to view Rorschach as the hero because he never compromises, and then go on to list all these ways in which that is hugely problematic as though it is completely impossible that any of these have occurred to Alan Moore (a man who, i should mention, has said that he almost regrets writing the character of Rorschach because of the way fans send him letters being like “Rorschach is so awesome” which make him want to… well continue being a yeti-like recluse, i guess, since i guess that’s working for him).

i don’t know, it seems to me like a lot of people have internalized this assumption that never compromising = a good thing, even the best thing, which strikes me as… kind of stupid. i mean we all laughed when colbert made fun of bush for this, right? “this man thinks the same thing on wednesday that he did on monday, no matter what happens tuesday.” we laughed because of how painfully true that was with an emphasis on the painful, that Bush was all into not-compromising and that was fucking a huge number of people over in very real and horrific life and death ways.

and i think maybe this is another symptom of that thing i never shut up about, people’s continuing unwillingness to embrace the fact that Life Is Complicated. not compromising is too simple, because it assumes that the ideal you are not compromising is always no matter what the best thing to do in any given situation, when actually, to take a mundane example, “honesty is the best policy” is not a good ideal to apply when you think your friend’s haircut sucks. telling your friend that doesn’t make you a fucking hero, it makes you an asshole.

and i think one of the points of Watchmen is that things are complicated. and nothing is as simple as it seems. i mean book ends by just… completely unsettling everything that had just gotten settled, undermining ozymandias’s overly simplistic solution to the world’s problems.

so, no, i don’t think that i “have to admit” that Rorschach is a hero because he never compromises, because i don’t think that makes you a fucking hero. and i don’t think, also, that i have to read the book as suggesting that Rorschach is a hero for that reason, because there’s nothing within the book suggesting that that’s true. or alternately, as was posited by a friend of mine, Moore is portraying Rorschach as “the hero” of the story, but simultaneously undermining the very definition of hero he fits into. you know, his never compromising gets him dead, and so what? he doesn’t die to save anyone, or to prevent something terrible from happening, or what have you. he dies for totally selfish reasons - he couldn’t deal with living his life having compromised like that. not very heroic if you ask me.

i mean - you could extend this argument way past Watchmen of course if you wanted - like Odysseus, you could say, never compromises his fucking need to always have the last laugh, and where does that land him. at sea for ten years, the fucking ass.

or, to say it much shorter: sometimes compromise actually just means that you are a fucking adult.

there are books I could write about Watchmen. But yes, this. And the characters with whom you’re supposed to identify (Dan and Laurie) are together in the end knowing that the world is a mess and imperfect in a thousand little ways and they can’t fix it, and it’s beautiful. (Which is why I was SO PISSED that the movie spent like 3 minutes on a porno sex scene in the Owl blimp thing and cut out ENTIRELY the one at the end where they reach for each other out of this need that jumps right off the page.)

Also because the biggest theme of Watchmen is NO ONE IS A HERO, so clearly, um, yeah.

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isabelthespy:

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INSANITY MOORE.
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"Is it any wonder that there are so few visible male Twilight fans? Although boys’ lack of interest in the series is used to argue against its “universality,” the fact is that boys who do like it may be legitimately scared to say so. The vitriol aimed at the series is often about policing gender and punishing girliness — and boys who dare to enjoy something so blatantly non-masculine would almost certainly find themselves harshly judged.

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Girls Just Wanna Have Fangs | The American Prospect

this is why I totally want to give dudes on the subway the thumbs-up when I see them reading Twilight books.

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"We can talk about objectification, as a concept, and whether or not it is good – I know it pisses me off, often – but we shouldn’t ignore the fact that women and men are both capable of it. We just happen to live in a world where straight men are expected to objectify, and given lots of opportunities to do it, and everyone else is supposed to keep it in their pants. On the girl side of things, mostly it is very young ladies and female dorks who break the rules, because they are less inhibited by socialization than the rest of us, but the fact is that sexual fantasy – which is, duh, always only about fulfilling your needs in the long run – looks goofy and weird and dehumanizing for a lot of people, women and men both. And probably we all need to grow up, and deal with the fact that everyone we meet in the world is a person with a complex inner life, and also be open to the fact that people are pretty in different ways and our entertainment only portrays one very limited slice of the vast spectrum that is human prettiness, and etc. But also? Be less weirded out by the fact that ladies are getting all freaky about Robert Pattinson. Or be MORE weirded out by the dudes getting all het up about various lady movie stars. Take your pick. Because ladies are people. And if there is one universal truth about people, it is that lots of us are kind of gross."

Tiger Beatdown › The Edward Cullen Underpants Conundrum

that noise you hear? it’s me cheering.

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"But the issue of Our Cultural Discomfort With Objectifying Robert Pattinson, which is a very important phenomenon that I just made up and decided that we should focus on, is perhaps best illuminated by how different it is from our generalized Cultural Discomfort with MF. Because we have no problem with objectifying Megan Fox, really! We just have a problem with everything she says, and specifically the things she says wherein she takes issue with being objectified. We just hate her. Whereas people don’t hate Robert Pattinson, really. At least, not outside of the inevitable superfans in various Internet comment sections, who take issue with him not loving Twilight like it is his own sweet mother, and most of their ire is reserved for Kristen Stewart anyway. And superfans just yell about shit all the time. That is how they show their love. People outside the superfan matrix don’t tend to have strong feelings about The Pattz, but they do tend to get all squirmy and giggly and uncomfortable with the way that so many women relate to his filmed image (for example, by screen-printing it on their underpants) and/or his person. Because those women are acting in a way that is typically reserved for men. And they’re treating Pattinson like a girl."

Tiger Beatdown › The Edward Cullen Underpants Conundrum

I had sworn off reading any more about Twilight after writing this. But this here is indeed awesome.

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"

Why is sex work necessarily more degrading than working at McDonalds, or a Dunkin Donuts for that matter? Both involve the sale of ones body, and labour power to a certain degree. Both involve not being adequately compensated vis a vis profits versus wage, yet pornography is deemed horribly degrading. I submit that this because womens sexuality is only culturally acceptable when it is virginal in nature. Good girls, or authentic women don’t actually enjoy performing sex acts, or participating in any form of voyeurism. Certainly there are women working in the porn industry that are not happy about that choice but not all women feel that way. If you ask Walmart workers, I some will tell you that they are not happy working there either.

For us to accept this as completely degrading to women, we must ignore those in the sex trade industry who unequivocally state that they perform this labour because they enjoy it, and therefore if we truly feel that it is necessary to respect women, we should validate their experiences and accept their explanations about their labour. Is it still demeaning if the one performing does not feel demeaned? By telling sex trade workers that they are uniquely oppressed are we not guilty of seeking to discipline their bodies in the same manner that we accuse others of doing? Are we not creating them as other?

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I think there is also an element of classism: if mid-to-upper-class women were to admit that Mickey D’s and maid service are just as degrading, they have to admit that it’s something they’re a part of. If McD’s is just as degrading, it’s degrading because the pay is such shit and the working conditions are so bad. If it’s degrading in that way, it’s because higher-class people don’t care enough to make it any better (because they are the ones with the power to do so). Therefore, if McD’s is just as degrading as sex work, it’s because of them.

So, of course, sex work is just a super special kind of degrading low-pay use-of-body work. Because class privileged women don’t typically hire female prostitutes. But they do hire maid service or buy something at Starbucks or stay in a hotel or use a public bathroom or use their electricity and indoor plumbing systems or stay in a man-built structure period … and so on …

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what Renee AND Amanda said. seriously. what I say over and over again when people talk about sex work is “No one ever tried to save me from being a waitress.”

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lately I am obsessed with this kind of patterned wallpaper. but if it were my wall it would have Marilyn where Audrey is.

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lately I am obsessed with this kind of patterned wallpaper. but if it were my wall it would have Marilyn where Audrey is.

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ekswitaj:

poisonthemonkey:

clingtomymouth:

fyeahsocialism:

BEST SIGN IN THE ALL OF EVER


How true. Well, except perhaps the noses of the pundits advertising these events. How unsurprising that those of us born into privilege feel most entitled to it.

ekswitaj:

poisonthemonkey:

clingtomymouth:

fyeahsocialism:

BEST SIGN IN THE ALL OF EVER

How true. Well, except perhaps the noses of the pundits advertising these events. How unsurprising that those of us born into privilege feel most entitled to it.

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dirtysilver:

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I say this all the time. “I’m a terrible person.” It’s usually because I make some sexual crack or other—something ‘shallow’ or overreaching or just crass; in other words, behaving in a way that wouldn’t provoke comment if I were a man.
But I don’t think I’m a terrible person at all. I can be selfish, shallow, can enjoy silly and ridiculous things, sure. Sometimes I’m bitchy and don’t have time for the bullshit. But I like me, and it’s precisely having figured that out in a bone-deep way that allows me to crack that I’m a terrible person and not mean it in the slightest.

dirtysilver:

deadgirls:

sampler:

black-and-white:

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I say this all the time. “I’m a terrible person.” It’s usually because I make some sexual crack or other—something ‘shallow’ or overreaching or just crass; in other words, behaving in a way that wouldn’t provoke comment if I were a man.

But I don’t think I’m a terrible person at all. I can be selfish, shallow, can enjoy silly and ridiculous things, sure. Sometimes I’m bitchy and don’t have time for the bullshit. But I like me, and it’s precisely having figured that out in a bone-deep way that allows me to crack that I’m a terrible person and not mean it in the slightest.

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